James Pethel III (1983

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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, James Franklin Pethel III (Jamie) who was born in Salisbury, North Carolina on July 12, 1983 to Mary Jo Lowder and James Franklin Pethel Jr. Jamie passed away on September 04, 2006 at the age of 23 from a methadone/xanax combination. Jamie is truly missed and was loved by so many.

2007-My 2nd Christmas without you. Missing you so very much.

        Happy 24th Birthday in Heaven-July 12, 2007
                 I miss you so very much. Mom

Mom (Mary and Jamie)

Photo By Tina Porter

                           www.HARMD.org
        (Helping America Reduce Methadone Deaths)
             Please see and sign petition on Harmd

Sun, Mar 25, 2007
Methadone, a quiet killer: deaths from unintentional overdoses rising
http://www.salisburypost.com/area/355413592536552.php

Lawmaker wants stiffer law to combat fatal overdoses
http://www.salisburypost.com/area/8504273095373.php

Methadone can wean addicts off other drugs, help with pain
http://www.salisburypost.com/area/321956313365236.php

               I AM WITH YOU STILL

                      In a twinkling of an instance
                          A dream comes to an end
                     The winds of change presented
                         Coming round the bend

                   And so your world is shattered
                       A breaking of your heart
                         The fabric of your being
                          So quickly ripped apart

                        It's all that you imagined
                      In all your wildest dreams
                     The emptiness surrounds you
                         With pain or so it seems

                        But this is not the ending
                 For strength lives on through will
                      My love is always with you
                          And I am with you still

                             Author Unknown

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Family Tree

Tributes and Condolences

You live in each of our hearts / Steve Ratliff (Friend of Mary )
I got clean on Dec 10, 2007. Had it not been for you Mother's valiant fight in your name, I might have fallen, and others too. You are still with us because by living on through your mother, she has reached out to those addicted, and shared you with ...

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For a life taken too young / Mike Vukmanovic (none)
I did not know you personally but I have known many like you. When I was your age and as were my friends and associates, we did things which were foolish and we were bulletproof.

I walk this world alone now wondering how was I spared...

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The Empty Chair, by Baydon S. / Mary Haynes (Mother)
This is a letter I recently received in the mail after I was contacted by phone by this guy named Baydon whom I never met but this was the best Christmas present that I could have wished for. Baydon, if you ever see this, I w...

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Davi's first Easter / Don Haynes (Step-dad)
Jamie, The Easter weekend has come and gone and we missed you. We had your baby Fri. & Sat. We got him his first Easter basket.Wish you could been here with us.Love, Don

Always Remember / Eileen Pacheco (Grandmother)
Jamie, I love you and miss you so very much and I know how much you loved me. I love your baby, Davi. He is a minature you. Remember you'll always be my baby-man, no matter what.
Love,
Mawmaw

I Can't Drive 55... / Tina Porter (Cousin)

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I miss you / Don Haynes (Step-father)

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Jamie was loved greatly! / Lane Bost (Friend of family )

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May love fill your life / Tricia Hurley (friend)

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My Special Son / Mary Haynes (Mom)

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Jamie had a big heart / Pat Smith (freind)

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His legacy

Jamie's Legacy to Me
I have learned more watching Jamie's struggles with addiction than I could have learned from anyone. He taught me so much about what the young addicts go through and I feel I am a much better counselor as a result of my son. This is for you son, you taught me well. I love you and miss you everyday. As I watch your son grow, I will let him know all about you and give him those great big bear hugs you gave and would have given to him. We will watch over him and be the best grandparents any little boy could ever have. Love, Your Mom

James's Photo Album

James Franklin Pethel III (Jamie)

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This memorial website was created by Mary Haynes on 02/17/2007.
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Sponsorship

The hosting of this website is sponsored by Mary Haynes

Memorial Candles

	Lorina Peyton lit a candle on 06/02/2008: "God be with you on your journey."

	Wendy's Momma lit a candle on 05/31/2008: "Jaimie, Your memories will never fade only move deeper into our hearts. Watch over your sweet Momma, with great love."

	Cathy Shilling Mom To Matt lit a candle on 05/15/2008: "Hi Jamie, Your mom misses you & Loves you very much. Shes fighting for all of us and all of our Angels XXOO"

	Bren O'Neal lit a candle on 05/15/2008: "Jaime, You are loved & will always be remembered.Your mom needs a hug, kiss & any signs you'd like to send her."

	Linda Dalton lit a candle on 05/14/2008: "I didn't know you Jamie but through you your mother has helped me."

	Baydon lit a candle on 05/09/2008: "A new friend in Nova Scotia loves your song and wants to record it :) A friend in CA recorded a beautiful version. Hugs"

	Pam Helbak lit a candle on 04/25/2008: "Jamie, Your momma misses you so much...you were a beautiful person. Tell Tim his momma loves him and misses him."

	Eileen Lowder lit a candle on 04/20/2008: "Babyman,another b-day without u. Imiss and love u so much.I'll see you one day. Maw-maw"

	Sherri Isenhour lit a candle on 04/17/2008: "Jamie, your story continues to help others.I believe there is one less empty chair in the room tonight. Thank you."

	Mary Haynes-Mom lit a candle on 04/02/2008: "I miss your hugs so very much. I would give anything to have just one more."

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